Was I scared because maybe deep down Id known that I could really love and be loved by this man? He is really matured guy.. except for the one who said he showered her with gifts!!! He is all like you have time, i really dont, i have about 10 years left to find someone, get married, and have decently healthy children. PLEASE LADY DONT WASTE YOUR TIME! Anything worth having is worth the work and Dont make someone your Priority when you ARE just a nother Option. We will make you experience romance of magnitudes that some signs are incapable of.Honestly, I feel like Virgos are indecisive,insensitive at times and a bit prudish in bed but with time yoll eventualy open up.I love how intellectual virgos are and how they communicate. Friendship is gone! IN FACT PERFECT! When you want something, dont ask for it, when we are asked for something we are mentally disordered and that lose cannon comes apart.. (Sometimes I still catch myself being a Piece of $hit). A few years later my scorpio man and I started talking more frequently and hanging out more and more. 1 has been my off and on for years and me and the 2nd one dated for a while but he had more than 1 woman and he used us all for different things/reasons. While now. Mars in Scorpio man is a naturally skillful lover. So we never really broke the friendship and remained friends through out those years.) always critical & knitpicking me to the point of insanity & aggravation, im not sure we are managable, compatible or truly in love as it says we could/should be. Impossible to resist, he is darkly sexy and very intense. He is one person who loves luxury and comforts immensely. When it comes to marriage, the best match for a Scorpio man is Virgo, Scorpio, Cancer, and Capricorn. He makes out I am the bad one. However, all Virgo are not the same; it is depend on the day and time she . For him, love is about caring for you, protecting you, making time for you, holding you and being there when you need him. There are a few things about Scorps people rarely understand, in many ways there are 2 very distinct different types of us out there, within which are 2 more types. Once trusting of you- similar tendencies as Extroverted Evolving. Im a Virgo girl and my boyfriend is a Scorpio and we have a deep connection. ETA: Both were amazing people. I do agree with the silence thing. No one understands why were together, but somehow in the midst of all our fuckeries, we just work. This comment is for comment #11 for the story Anthony shared. It makes me believe he is that in love that it made me worried that it might not work out well. A Virgo woman likes to take her time in romantic matters. It might just be about the right time, place and person. I have many Scorpio friends and most of them male. For now our relationship is in smooth sailing. When in a relationship you should accept those faults and if need be help that person change them not force them to do it alone. Life and love Is about growing / learning and in the bigger picture evolving as individuals, as a planet and a universe. But it could never work out long term, at least for me. Scorps are insanely complicated and we get even, not mad, however, sometimes we get mad and then get even. So bear with me here.. , I, as a Virgo, tend to shy away from men who are overtly showering with their affection It sucks for me because that sort of attention sort of repels me, makes me run in the other direction if its what Id consider un-called for or unexpected.. Not part of our divine plan since it isnt something we (ourselves) are puttin out there but instead its comin from an outside source. While the Virgo man is usually a more self-controlled emotional creature, the Scorpio woman has the power to teach the Virgo man many things. The thing is, this girl is 75% into women. Never again with them. The passion for knowledge that Virgos and . Talking about the reproductive phase. Rest assured though Scorpio male has now grown and learnt the importance of communication and has learnt from the failed relationship His next partner will now benefit greatly from the person he has grown to be and going forwards if he finds happiness warmth intimacy and communication he sought in his time with virgo female else where.. You shouldnt judge all Scorpios because of one experience. I always reread our messages and it blows me away how deep our conversations are. We work together as a perfect team, well almost perfect. At that time i was so fed up, hurt, felt manipulated ,mentally exhausted, used, that i said pretty bad things to him. Even paid for my brake pads for $400. A Virgo woman, with her slow pace, good listening skills, and quick pattern recognition should be able to discern which is which more easily than any other woman in the zodiac. It goes deeper and touches something that is transformational. I dont profess to be the perfect Scorpio. They are sneaky and always doing things behind your back. Want to meet eligible single woman who share your zest for life? Virgos are inherently loyal, pragmatic, and detail-oriented. Being a perfectionist does not mean I always exect everything to be perfect. The only arguments are silly ones that end quickly and anything serious is always talked about after we both cool down, as both Virgo and Scorpio are a bit hot headed too! A passionate, sensual love affair between a Scorpio and a Virgo will lead to a long-term commitment. !I want out goin through vet assis.. to get me & my 10 yr old & 8 yr old OUT but still scared 2 ! Another seems to have finally gotten the hint that Im not interested since he isnt texting me 24/7 anymore, but he and the last example of a Scorpio still seem to think of themselves as being above everyone else. The Virgo just seems bemused and unable to get beyond it. If he says he has a girl and hes not leaving herhes not leaving her. So, I lost a mother, and a best friend. He can effortlessly explore a situation and can be pretty critical regarding it, if needed. . I have omitted some things; some of these things would make me look good and some probably bad. They are very controlling,mean, abusive and selfish when they want to be. but still my heart aches for her sometimes I see bad dreams, I immediately call her and she also responds properly saying Main theek hun(I am okay). Also that I dont have time for men that dont know what they want. . One of the Virgo females most shining virtue is her gentle and unselfish devotion to the man she loves. She has my back and calls me on my $hit. So fucking true. I always kind of have, but having lost the one person that loved me despite seeing the worst of me was devastating. As a Scorpio woman with your eye on a Virgo guy, that's good news for you! I love him so much and I cant imagine being without him; hes the 1st Scorpio man Ive ever dated and Im wondering where has he been all my life. In 2yrs he only bought me 2 gifts and only because i had to ask. @ Anthony: Let Virgo girl know you exist, contact her through text or email first. document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); Copyright 2021 Ask Oracle. I cant say that she will come back to you and that you should wait. Here are some things I believe could help you have a great relationship with us and to keep us honest, loving, loyal, devoted, purchasing you gifts and doting on you. But I cant hide that im scared that one day she will leave me for another man. Compatibility for wealth and family growth: Good. I see that now. We clash and we cmploment each other. thats right, now and hate hurting someone. I would recommend dating an earth sign. Beautiful relationship. She is also highly loyal and works unselfishly for the good of the ones she loves. As an earth sign, Taurus is grounded and generally laid back. But, I do have a Scorpio rising, which might help me a bit as I navigate this man. So thats where we struggle is telling each other how we feel. The best thing for us to do is not argue because its never really anything huge to be arguing about. everything went well and the next morning things were still on track we even spent most of the following day together getting to know each other. But like anyone else we are not perfect. They NEVER say goodby because, they always want to come back. They're considered one of the best, if not the best men for a Virgo female. Pisces and Scorpio. They will CHEAT and LIE to you the entire time you are with them. we have been on a few dates, and the atmosphere is just so intense with so much passion i feel like i cant breathe! the story becomes interesting because he is my one of my big brothers childhood friends. Through all her Virgo adventures or trips I scorpio have been loyal honest and did nothing but try to comfort her Virgo. Once they feel safe they are able to introduce themselves and communicate freely. This is a good pair, Im with a virgo girl and im a scorpio we loving it. I am a virgo woman and am with a scorpio man. In all his relationships especially with his virgo ex wife he lacked happiness, warmth, intimacy, trust, security as well as communication. and we can really stir up a grand meal in the kitchen. Save. The analytical and patient Earth sign Virgo meets the passionate and emotional Water sign Scorpio. Check out these 4 zodiac signs who tend to make a classy exit after a breakup. if a woman tries to get him to listen when hes doing this it wont work until he has rebuilt. #29. I dont know whether I should call up and just admit everything I feel, or hope that she is single at the end of the year which she has been this far but how would you guys feel if you hook up and then the guy goes off for so long. God be with her, I can survive in hell also but dont leave her hand, If something happens to her I wont be able to rest even in my grave. We had an 18th the next day and everyone got abit.mhmm (:D) next thing i know i wake up next to her and she said she carried me downstairs because I was so gone. hahahahaaaa we already are in a relation but not expressing my feelings is going to cost me my life. I am virgo female and ended my 2 yrs relationship wid a scorpion man.Same situation n same prbs.Dey r gud liars and punish u only. But she says she loves Nik. lets go straight to the bedroom Virgo Woman and Scorpio Man Love Compatibility | Ask Oracle. Pisces woman here. Thank you so much for this. Of all the Water signs, she is the one that represents the . to be so in-tune, yall are cluless at best! Im very loyal. The bad apples out there will spam me for this email if it was helpful for anyone else that is having problems and is looking to understand. That intense quietness guys can be read/translated as a BORE! I think the main reason is communication. DO it BACK, dont yell at us, complement us from time to time, listen and make efforts to hear us. I am virgo woman.. At that time my mind begin to work in overdrive and thought pretty bad scenerios. for a full explanation on this check out Alison Armstrongs book, the Queens Code. Although she Virgo did have not so hot past relationships not with scorpios tho it was with an Aries male. I gave him all the loyalty, love and attention, in the world,(thats true virgo nature) and got nothing but lies, mind games, punishment and empty promises in return. I told her not to worry on my end everything will be fine and shell know where to find me. Virgo man-Scorpio woman is the most intriguing couple of all zodiac signs. Virgo. Being that Ive been with my Scorpio for so long, Im learning to let him know on the spot when I feel hes not being attentive. No matter who they are they all the same. Sexual & Intimacy Compatibility. we recently met and there was an instant attraction but we both shied away and silently suffered. My Scorpio man and I have been together for 6 yrs. But who is? Go back and read my and scorpio2k14 posts- youll find some answers there. You try to be friendly and good but if they dont get want they want they leave. I said dont blame it on me. Beneath the soft voice of Scorpio man lays his subtle strategies to enhance his career and personal life. Quiet and recluse- We would like kids together eventually but were taking everyday one step at a time. I find what a lot of people have said about us male Scorps troubling. My scorp would constantly punish me, whenever i upset him or we had a fight, he would abandon me and our relationship for days and disappear without a word! She rivals Scorpio's strong will, and has no problem asserting her dominance when needed. There are times when a man needs to focus on nothing to rebuild his testosterone so he can then spend it on the next thing he needs to focus on. he came back after 3 days, we are happily married now.. Virgo woman here, falling quickly for a Scorpio man. because when I made that move, it was such a relief for me a weight no longer there and its like I could breathe again? Someone else is getting everything she had and more . I personally have never been physically or mentally abusive and never even thought to be, i dont think that is a Scorpio trait, i think that is just how the man was raised or just how he is. I know this is pretty scattered but i dont like talking about things i personally have experienced. Except Virgo from above. Now i am feeling lost and hurt. I met a scorpio guy few months back.we hit it off amazingly. I am a Scorpio & I have a fling for a Virgo girl. Youre right, its BS, their excuses. In the beginning, he was very affectionate and compassionate, but lately the romance seems to have fizzled. Virgo attracted to this guy because he is very dominant. . He was very quick to ask me to be his girlfriend a little while later, and though my cautious virgo mind was hesitant I gave in to my heart and said yes, although Ive kept my heart guarded for a while; opening up little by little. I am currently with a Scorpio man & although Im only 17 & hes almost 18 I truly believe well be together forever & he believes that too. Because I am so transparent and verbal, I find myself challenged by his relative silence. Virgo woman and prefers to be a gemini man, sex on the gemini woman love. In other words, a Scorpio woman is more sexually oriented, while a Virgo man leans more towards romance. PEACE!!!! I & my boyfriend was planning to get married last month, just last week we had some argument that made him get angry on me just because of the argument, he said we will not marry me again and the next day he left me and we broke up. Dont get me wrong Im not perfect but I work on my flaws and imperfections everyday through prayer and meditation on Gods word. Im sorry thats happened Jonas. At the middle of the night, I woke up from his texts and misscalls. We meet in October witch is right around the corner and I seem to be falling fast faster than I have before with any man and I was married for 5 years. We are so in love it feels like a dream I often wonder how i got so lucky to be with a man like him although there are some things that we need to work on in our relationship I know he loves me so much and i as well. Virgos if you have NO INTENTIONS whatsoever to devote yourself to your sexy obsessive scorpio then you should END it RIGHT THERE or prepare to suffer. Scorpio does have to be patient with Virgo, we do have a tendency to want things our way, lol. I never realy believed in horoscope compatability before, but nothing else is working so I guess I should give this a try. Few days back, we broke up after which i said pretty bad things to him and he just said that i am the reason of all this. All you Scorpios out theredont be afraid to open up and love your Virgos. I ended up marrying a Taurus man. You lack the common sense to understand a virgo womans TRUE nature, which is a loyal, loving, nurturing creature-that has your best interest at heart, shes not vindictive by nature! 10 years is a long time, and you cant rush relationships just because you want to have children. so no worries Thats more to do with the way male and female brains develop because of testosterone, rather than Zodiac Sign. In terms of love, both signs are cautious. Virgo Woman and Scorpio Man Love Compatibility by Linda Goodman. They are very complicated. This scorpio man loved me so much that, even after all that had happened, he gave me the choice to go back to the other man and hed still be here if i needed him. Now that Ive told you what works with us let me tell you simply, if we dont feel manipulated and we trust you, we dont take that trust back unless we have clearly been harmed. I still loved him and I wanted him to marry me, for me to get him back i had no choice than to contacted [emailprotected] com to help me and he helped me to bring my lover back to me so we can continue our plan to be married. Whats a safe time to wait before contacting, even if just asking to catch up? Most Scorpios are very pure at heart. When he is ready to let something go.. then he lets it go completely. Ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication, Virgo is the most analytical sign of the zodiac. Man, that was long! Therefore, want-to-know-all, and feel deeply, right man half. Who is to know what really happened, but I can tell you this, if a scorpio male gets it into his head that he isnt getting what he wants or cant have what he needs. Then there is the erotic side of the Scorpio man who needs to release his lust and passion in the bedroom. . The Taurus man and the Virgo woman make the perfect romantic pair. And a Scorpio woman captures his heart by always being there for him. When my Virgo would do something to piss me off badly enough i would take some alone time. We are human. A Scorpio male is deeply emotional and has a sun sign noted for its extremes and intensity, as well as the need for privacy, power, control, passion, jealousy, and possession. The other part is sensuous, erotic, seeking every level of passion for absolute . Comments on the Gifts this is our LOVE language, it is sacred to us, we like to be in the moment, spontaneous and appreciated.. when something is asked for we dont feel like it is appreciated and it became a chore and a burden. I agree that both Virgo and Scorpio are in it to the end when they find the Yin to their Yang. She wanted to have my babies and leave her lesbian girlfriend for me. It feels to good to be true yet there is an intimate trust that comes naturally telling me it is. There's no Madonna/whore conflict. My scorpio man and I have a bit of a long history We first met in 2005 and it was indescribable!! Keeping my guard up from them all. when you are in-tune, you since the hurt you are causing & out of love & respect, you STOP, CEASE & DESIST! I am a Virgos Virgo, with a Sun and Moon in the sign. Everything Ive read about scorpios is what I though I knew about him but he has turned out to be a snake. Of all the pairings in the zodiac, Virgo and Scorpio may just make one of the most unexpectedly compatible duos. For both the Scorpio woman and the Virgo man, material well-being is very important. Our first date was good, in his defense, and scorpios are just easy to open up to. In my lifetime, Ive loved a number of signs (or thought I did) this one is different. DXPNET. Never once he shared any of his feelings and thougths with me, i know that i am not perfect, i was willing to change for him, but he neversaid anything, i didnt know what wrong behavior i had, he didnt tell me. how would you like that? until he told me how he felt about me and made me understand the miscommunications. I guess its all a part of learning as a couple. They both encourage each other and magnify each others virtues. Virgo woman and Scorpio man have great communication, but without her knowing, the Scorpio holds things back and keep to him in his ever lying depth. As scorpios were intuitive and can sense when someone is not being genuine. He loves truely and makes sure that Im happy always. another common thing is that they are extremist, obesssive, compulsive and abusive. 13 Virgo is an earth sign, while Scorpio is a water sign. Ive had many partners throughout my life but I have never been so hung up on a person or had the feelings come as quickly as they have with my amazing Virgo woman. i cant say i dont feel the same because i do, but i know the men of this zodiac are great actions and have a tendency to do this tango over and over because all scorpios love to tango, and im finding it very difficult to restrain myself HELP! Lo and behold: the day after that he inboxes me on FB saying he has been thinking about me. Scorpio is more closed-off . for him, when he sits there being HIM 100% & doesnt feel bad about it at all! wtf is wrong w/you guys that you cant see how much you need to grow/change for the betterment of you and those around you, you work hard to protect us from others, but WHO PROTECTS US FROM YOU & your vindictive childish ways of payback?? I know Virgette but I cant help feeling vindictive nad spiteful I know in the end it wont help but I think it would make me feel so much better. Here is the secret to win us back and keep us from turning into a complete [emailprotected]$tard- Take a step BACK, let us know that you understand we feel BETRAYED, our imagination is one of the most deviant that exists on the planet and if we feel scorned we dont know how to comprehend in the moment. every word defines my relationship. Scorpio man is a protector by nature and never allows his Virgo woman to face the world alone. Were actually very loving/ caring individuals. The best time for Virgo and Scorpio to create enough safety and emotion in their sexual encounters, is in the situation where they are each other's first . In short thats why I HATE this Scorpio. She will ask yourself how they . Love compatibility between Scorpio woman and Virgo man. Well, needless-to-say she didnt contact me, so I didnt contact her. Then one day he propsed me and i accepted. I hope he would come talk to me again because I knew he is the right man for me.. BDW age doesnt matter too because Im 27 and he is 24. Im so over joyed and I really think I going to fall for this guy cause his personality, humour, intelligence astound me. Its intense, and insanely addicting. I kept asking him that whats wrong, why are you behaving like this, but he just said that he will tell me. He wanted me to tell him all the time that where i am going and with whom, but he didnt shared a single thing to me, i didnt know anythning about his life, nothing. You literally just said everything I was thinking trying to put it into words I am also with a Scorpio. We get each other, intuitively. A person with both Virgo and Scorpio placements/ energy in my natal chart here. Hes a extremely protective of me and while I enjoy this sometimes it bothers me because hell try to protect me to the point of babying me, in which case I have to remind him that Im a grown up! Mar 22, 2014. Virgos are intelligent and sharp. hes not hes just a typical scorpio male seeking warmth passion and intimacy, If Virgo woman would first rather point out that scorpio is not perfect ..and discuss that point first, scorpio will listen but yes will accept the same in return , If this cannot happen scorpio male may feel discontent and again become distant and therefore appear to virgo as though he cannot be trusted he is a scorpio male and before long warmth and intimacy will be offered elsewhere and virgos suspicions may become a self fulfilling prophecy this may then appear to confirm virgos suspicions and hence. WHO HAS THIS MORE JEALOUSY CHARACTER? Scorpio Woman In Love. They can share a mutual attraction where Pisceans can appreciate the fiery nature of a Scorpio woman who seeks her anchor in calm Pisces. You get my point right, Honesty goes a long way, betrayal has us become sinister The time I took away to grieve (though I believe I will forever be grieving) resulted in a drift between me and the Virgo woman, because I didnt really talk to her (or anyone for that matter) while I grieved. A Virgo man is a very concrete person with sturdy brain and thorough information of all the aspects of life. I had a fight with my scorp and of course he punished me by silent treatment for 5 days, this was typical of him. Scorpio man will be devoted to a Virgo woman when he falls in love with her; Scorpio never afraid. Didnt mean to intrude on the scorpios and virgo site; just wanted to share and let you all know my experience with my scorpio husband. Lol. I love my Virgo girl. I forgave him,after that i thought everything will be fine but it was not. Also, he always embarrassed me in front of Aries by making me look stupid when me and Aries dated. But was a bit pursuasive, i didnt mind that. First thing I believe and know for myself and many of my Exrtrovered Scorp Friends: We want to love and give deep, create passion and be the most amazing man for the woman we love and care for. All she virgo ever did was critique critized and ran from me scorpio. A Virgo woman should know these are the kinds of experiences that can flow, one way or another, from a Scorpio man she loves. We both have messed up, he blames me for all the events that rooted from one problem and I have to remind him that his choices and the consequences of those choices are what got him to his current point. Good for you removing yourself from an unhealthy relationship with a man that you dont trust, forget scorpio or not. Virgo and Taurus. he isnt engaged and its a ploy to keep people out of his business and he like me. There was instant chemistry between us when we first bumped into each other at a bus stop, I noticed him right away! Visitor experiences and scorpio woman. He and I have this kind of connection that is deep and resonates what is written in the original post. Rich woman looking for older man & younger woman. What that guy did was all him and you didnt deserve it. Been hurt too many times now and Scorpio put the icing on the cake! I saw him up the road and He went out of his way to walk right past me no word. Hes a scorpio/ saggitarius and Im pisces/aries. On the other hand, the world famous depth of Scorpio man troubles her as this gives her the feeling of dissatisfaction and uninvolved in her own mans life. You will lose them instantly because we love with no limit and hard. For a Scorpio man they are also among the best matches for them. I wonder why it was so hard to make this step before? He was so sweet, caring, charming and affectionate. Very unexpectedly, we were reintroduced and, honestly, Ive never looked back. They also both benefit from spending a long time growing friendships and relationships. To me, its worth the effort and the work you must put into ANY relationship to make it work. And that I had to have some more life experiences in order for me to see this and to actually see him.