They will date other women while they date you and you won't even know. We went out for about . Before he finds his interest in writing, he previously played as the guitarist in a band for nearly 5 years. Yes he is very affectionate, and reading this article it makes me feel sick to think that he is not meaning to be affectionate and its just accidental signals he sends - and the reasons for his disappearing being a mental freak out- indicates that I am dealing with a child? Have you felt like hes kept you on the sidelines in his social life? Next, he avoids making any concrete plans at all. An Aries woman is famous for her egoistic attitude too. the key is be patient! so i didn't, i let him be and kept pursuing my goals, even hung out with my ex again for a few months. But he did the same thing to me calling my friends asking them where i am if i didn't answer my phone. We like mysteries, and we like to open closed books. Still, to make their dates perfect, each should begin or end with a stop by an eclectic caf, outdoor preferably, where they can quietly talk and laugh about their time together and get to know one another. I called and left 1 message, a couple of texts and an email..and no reply. They do have the mutual understanding and mutual admiration for each other, so things between them are quite harmonious. ALSO, my 4th house is also in Aquarius also, heightening my respect for Aquarius in general. Ruled by Mars planet, a person whose birth date falls between March 20th and April 19th is usually frank about what he feels and thinks. Written by experts. Disappearing Aquarian. I am in shock and sick. He will rather travel with his family and friends than travel with you. So if they already make up their mind, dont bother to talk them out or slow them down. if I want him fr keeps and I want him to fall fr me too??? I mean how is it that a man has a woman who loves him unconditionally , loyal, & just a great woman all round. Aries woman is very impatient and energetic. Thing is I was so busy with my own life that I was very aloof in the beginning. And I kept thinking if I just hung in there he would let me into that secret place that seems so special. How can a man be so open with their emotions say they love you, they feel like a kid again, that you make them happier than they have been in a long time. I'm a Libra. The Rams dont let anyone stand in their way. For the fire sign, they need to be on top of everything. Read all the comments here and they very much ring true about the disappearing act. In the first few weeks after he starts ignoring you, you should not call, email, or text him anything. I caved and told him I had a crush on him. They are very independent and fun to spend time with. That was about a month ago! To me that is a person who is out to see what he can get from a women. He got out of his truck I guess to come see why I was thereduhand when he got close to the car I just drove off, and never looked back!!! A man with this zodiac sign is quite good at expressing his emotions physically. What will be will be I guess. Because then you'll be very confused when he suddenly disappears or brushes off invitations to spend time with you. I don't want to lose him so as of today I will ignore him which to me is an odd way of getting him back. He even told me he thought it was cool how I told him that and don't expect anything, I don't know how to take that. He tells me I'm not his girlfriend so why lie to me like he does his girlfriends???? Hi, im a leo and been dating a aquaruis man for a couple of months. He is on a mission with something at the moment, which started a couple of days b4 we last met, and he asked me to help him with it so we have been in constant contact during the last week for that reason BUT nothing else seems to be happeening. I thought I was dumped! So if he doesnt like you, he will exclude you from his social orbit, either physically or energetically. Their love language is more of physical contact than anything else. Plus, both are idealistic romantics who have faith in new beginnings and tend to look at the world through rose-colored glasses. However, don't you dare go around thinking you're the one who will change him? If you want someone to shout you the brutal truths, Aries then. The first step in getting an Aries to fall in love with you is to understand, accept, and finally cherish, these tendencies. I will get bored and feel unloved and move on with a quickness and not look back. But, to think after i knew he cheated i felt i didn't want to lose 9 years so i fought 4 him. When the Aries male really likes a woman, he will approach her quickly but later will regret that he didnt take things slow this is the reason for his pulling-away act. I text he doesnt respond till days later. He was very upset & has given me the cold shoulder since. When in doubt, ask him directly. Like you said, miss the person that treated me like his woman. Aquarius guys want what they can't have. Even my ex who was also Aquarius, who did not run away, was like a robot emotionally and that hurt so much that I had to end it. Pegged most Aquarians on the dot. This disappearing thing they do has got be one of the most perplexing and annoying things they do, even though I completely understand the need for "alone time" and "freedom" because I'm a lot like this myself, but the other thing he does that makes me, like others, want to slap the snot out of him, is him not replying when you can be in the middle of a texting conversation, and POOF, he's vanishes no into thin air, and you have no fricken idea WHY or what the heck is going on, and when you do ask you get no reply, which is just so immature and disrespectful, or at least that's how it comes across, and this just drives me nuts, nuts, nuts!!! Anyway I felt his wonderful aura and even though he was distant towards the end of our little fling it was still there. All they think about is how to get what they want. I think maybe I've said too much in response, but I couldn't help myself. After about 2 months of this treatment I took a call from him and we went back out. If I thought I had room I would share the texts between him and I from those 2 days. When they get bored, or things are not going the right way, they would call it a quit. do i back off as well? Luckily, Aries never stay mad for long or holds grudges. All I know is that, as an Aquarius, I think I know what you are talking about. Unfortunately this is one of the most frequent complaints we get from our readers, where they feel they aren't a priority for their boyfriend or husband. Getting your Ram partner to return is quite difficult. They are very bold and always keep things their way. No. Like I said earlier, the compatibility rate of Aquarius man and Aries woman is not too good or too bad. Boring and stagnant would be the kiss of death to an Aries/Pisces matchup. If you want an Aries to shower you with comforting words, you probably pick the wrong person. ( I am an aries ) and my patience has been tested to a degree where I have questioned my own sanity !! I am addressing that and we had a while where only 1 argument and I didn't run, he talked me out of it. An Aries woman has a vitality that gives the languid Pisces man a boost. I have been seeing an Aquarius off and on for three years now. For as long as you're honest, loving, kind, and sweet, someone would regret losing you. You don't think we are scared too?? He has texted me once during this time because he said he missed me. When influenced by . This sign is perfect for the scorpio. It's the complementary differences and the Pisces man's flexibility that make this relationship work. I know it will happen someday. You should know that love doesn't only feel good, it feels safe. But the typical Aqua IS. One minute you'd swear they want to spend every minute with you, which we know is not the case, and the next they treat you like the babysitter or some mere acquaintance! Oh so you know! Pay attention to what he says when both of you finally sit down to talk. Surely a person gets tired of always going back to a passive interest. In worse cases, Aries may treat others as a tool. I am not a liar. Or, should you just give him space? When he changes, if he changes, it'll be because he decided to, not that you made him. I have never met anyone like this that is so hard to relate to, its almost like I feel like I have to concur this man before I can end it. Then i said if it was meant then we will meet again. If so, youre in the right part of the internet. Its been 2 days since his exam is over. You don't want inconsistency in your life, trust me. If they cant be together romantically, they will likely end up as best teammates in work because they understand one another well. So, when Aries woman with Aquarius man is together, will this relationship make a long run? That he decided Im too much work (Im a Pisces and we are a bit emotional), or that he was using me, or is in love w/ me and is afraid..it doesnt matter does it? I'm lost I want to beg and ask him why but you know how that will go. Im starting to wonder if I just dont wanna give up because he is such a challenge. Because the truth is, most of the time I still want to be with whoever I am avoiding, it's just I need a little space, a little break to experience the rest of the world. I didn't mind because he complimented me often at his OWN will about how smart I am. I have never tried so hard to accommodate another person in a romantic relationship. Does he keep coming around? But im in the period of Telling him how i really feel about him dissapearing.. I had no idea my aquarius guy friend had a crush on me for the longest time. Big time me thinks!! I want to give him up before we have even started but though I have had a few dates in the last year he is the only one that has made my tummy go over in the last 7 years. I know, seriously.) Initially i called him once in a day & messaged in general clearly stating that its okay if he doesn't reply. He's divorced Twice you once you reunited after all that time that's past still have feeling for each other. He recently went on a date with this girl that I have never met, but then he told me about the date and what happened two weeks after it happened. I've bern with my Aqua guy on and off for 4 yearswe leave together now but he decided he wants to move out. When we first met everything was sweet. It's taken me 12 long years to finally accept that my aqua man will never fulfil my needs. LoveDevani is an independent website. I've been talking to him for over a year and a couple of months ago he just stopped talking. The Aries and Taurus relationship has two heady and stubborn creatures at the helm. If youve been seeing him for some time and his friends still dont know who you are, thats a sign that hes not talking about you with anyone. lol My aquarius disappears too. my situation. He seems so fascinating. Anyway, we started spending a lot more time together & the sex was amazing. he tells me how much he loves my company. He ignores your texts. It is hard to confine them in any situation or environment. He didn't like any of them. There's a difference between a person who keeps putting in work because they care about you and another who's just using you because he's aware you'd be available. Now he's completely ignoring me. They can be at times very unpredictable due to being a fire sign. But I do love listening to him rant on about whatever lol not to mention he is very ambitious, So damn sexy! .3 weeks maybe cause he just disappeared. The Famous Cap Disappearing Act.man It Really Hurts: I. DXPNET. I haven't called him since 2 weeks. But he still didn't fight back. Heres how to deal with an angry Aries. His laid-back passivity gives her permission to slow down and relax. He disappears often. They are very independent and fun to spend time with. ;(. Don't read too much into what he says. Is it normal when Aries man acts distant? While any sign can be clingy, Aries are usually much too independent to be considered clingy. His impulsive act often makes the woman feel like shes neglected, unloved, and uncared. Are you in a roller-coaster relationship with a passionate Aries man? He lived in USA and just visited London about 7 times a year, I thought I don't want to meet and fall for you and then never get to see you. So if you think this is an ideal match, its not. We had a disagreement and things changed. Page 2: Discuss Aries And The Famous Disappearing Act In The Aries Forum. They are extremely frustrating, and the mixed signals they give are weird, for sure! Been dating this Aquarius for almost a year and its the slowest process ever! He'll think this in the kindest, most rational way ever. Is he distracted and just wants some 'space', like they do, or was his behaviour the last time we met his way of telling me he doesn't want to know? I've been dealin with my aquarius man for almost a year and i dont kno how he truly feels. It's like he cast a spell on me. Pairing Capricorn and Gemini is like pairing up Yoda with Tinker Bell. I miss him a lot when he disappears but I never tell him. There is a caveat: If he does this, he might still be into it but has genuinely become preoccupied. I had little time for him and wanted to take my time as I really didn't want or need at this time to meet someone because of things I am currently going through in my life.